BUSY

Man…a lot has happened since my last post…to the point where I don’t even know where to start. I want to talk about my girlfriend and something other things too. First off I have been SOOOOOOOO busy with grad classes, they are killing me so thats why no post latley. ANY E WAYZ...So we have gone ring shopping since the last post, and all of them that we tried on she like. I know the style that she likes, and the range that I am looking for…about 3 grand. And to tell you the truth I didn’t know that the girl gets 2 rings out of the whole thing…and engagement ring, and a wedding ring…WOW. But we have been growing together and its really odd…as much as I hate it, I love it. I say that I hate it because I said I was done with females till I got my “hood”…(when you get a masters you get a hood…or something like that)…but I didn’t. When I tell people that I am back with here some people look at me like I am crazy…but its all good…I LOVE THE HATERS. Even my grandmother is hating, but that too is all good. When we go out, we just throw out ideals about the wedding, and what we want, and what we don’t want. So far this is what we got. This was all my idea. To have a fall wedding like in late September, and have it all white. We are still debating if it will be outside, or indoors…???. That is hot. We want a big wedding, and reception too…the more people, the more gifts RIGHT??? WE have event talked about the honeymoon. I let her go first with her idea, and she said Alaska…and that is cool… because I am ICE COLD, but at the same time…I don’t know. I then put my idea out there, and it was better….South Africa. We do know this that we want it to be in the late Spring, or the early fall. The early fall would be better…but we will see. We even have a place where was will have the wedding party at…and this place it hot. We BOTH fell in love with it the FIRST time that we walked up in the place…its just gonna cost because of its location. Yesterday 11/19/05 we went to a wedding, and we just looked at what we like, and disliked…so where are now thinking of places where we want to have the reception. But I guess the most important thing would first be to decide at whose church we gonna get married at first…and to do our marriage counseling…ahh man, this is getting way to deep. AND NOW FOR THE OTHER STUFF…Alpha I don’t even know what to say about this…except you got to take the bitter with sweet, I aint the one to live for drama, but at times, you got to put up with it ( at the end its all B.S.) to make you a stronger person. Well I have to go now because I have to go to my wifey’s aunt play at church…yes I know the family, and she knows mine. We are talking about Thanksgiving plans and what we are going to do. I think that we may end up going to both families. As I am typing all of this, I am kinda scared because of the unknown and I just want to know what is going to happen, what city I am going to be in. We (notice how everything is we…no longer just I…that takes some getting used to) have talked about what city we are going to. She doesn’t mind going go ALT, but would mind staying. She knows that it has been a long dream of mine to go to the south, and would support me in all that I do…and I love her for that…thanks babe….

OH YEA, she talked me out of using the knife last night…I was going to have to go postal.


Shutouts to the supportive sands ( if you don’t know if this is you…have I called you in the past 3 weeks), brush, and spec, and other folks in the greekdom that have helped me out in the past 3 weeks…606